Rekindle Your Love With 22 Fun And Exciting Date Ideas!
When my husband and I were first married, we had a weekly date night. We both looked forward to it all week and would get everything ready and on Friday evenings, we’d go out to one of our favorite restaurants followed by an outing with friends. One thing that made it special was that we always had a change of clothes for myself along with some wine and make-up so that we could take off our ‘mom and dad’ hats for the evening. This is something I always looked forward to each week at the end of a busy workweek: laughing, connecting, just the two of us. But as time went on, things changed. It’s become hard for us to keep up with our same date night ideas but half the fun is in trying something new! Keep scrolling if you want some inspo – stay tuned for some quality date night ideas.
You could argue that there’s no need to go on a date if you’ve been with your partner for a long time or have lost hope in the idea of dating. But while it might feel like any outing is special, dates are very important in any relationship– they’re what keeps the sparks between you and your partner alive.
With the increased workload that comes with parenting and maintaining household chores, date night is all the more important. One of the most effective ways to maintain a healthy relationship is by connecting in creative ways. Whether it’s game night, movie night, or something more romantic, nurturing your partnership is essential in these hard times.
No matter how your relationship is going, there are ways to deepen your emotional bond and strengthen the connection. As the pandemic has shown us, physical intimacy isn’t possible all the time. So, focus on building a mutual understanding of one another’s feelings.
Here are 22 ways to make your date night interesting. Have any good ideas of your own? Let readers know in the comments below!
Backyard Picnic
Next time you’re planning a Saturday together and want a break from cooking, pack a small meal to eat outside together. You can grab lunch somewhere in your neighborhood, or enjoy the great weather with a picnic in your own backyard.
Workout Together
Try a few simple exercises in the comfort of your own home. Do something engaging and fun, like taking a jog or bike ride together. If you’re feeling daring, head out for some fresh air and exercise in nature to improve your mood; staying active is a great way to take care of both your physical and mental health!
Sightseeing!
Although many museums, galleries and theaters are closed to the public, many of them offer free virtual tours for you to explore from your home. You can watch live footage of adorable marine critters, or take a virtual walk through Main Street in New York City. You can even explore the inside of some art museums without leaving your couch!
Pack up your backpack and eat some s’mores.
If you live in a region that permits camping, you should plan to go. Or, stay indoors with your family and make s’mores over an open fire.
Personal book club.
Rather than watch a show or read something alone, get together to read a book you both like. Read the same book at the same time, then pick a date to finish it by and meet to have an in-depth conversation about it.
You deserve a break. Spa Day!
There are many ways to recreate a spa experience in your own home. Some scented candles, moisturizing face masks, soothing bubble bath, a little massage oil and relaxing music will do the trick.
Who can make the tastiest meal with random ingredients? Have a cook-off competition.
The pleasure of this time together doesn’t have to look fancy or take a lot of money, but it can still be an intimate and romantic time together. Pick your ingredients and tell the other person what you need to do with them in order to make something. Who gets the most points for effort and creativity is up to you.
Wine tasting!
One fun and inexpensive game that you can play is blind wine tasting. Choose four or five different wines of various price points, and have your partner guess which wine belongs to which label. You might be surprised by what you discover!
Create a beautiful painting together!
Painting and sipping? That’s nicer than painting with a big roomful of other people in aprons, isn’t it? Do it yourself at home. Just pick a famous painting and have some fun painting it together with your loved one. Compare your finished pieces or try your hand at art like embroidery. You’ll find that some craft stores offer virtual classes as well.
Remember.
One way to have fun when apart is to create a shared photo album. Add your favorite pictures and videos and spend time reminiscing about the good times you had. You can make some hilarious jokes too, which will allow you both to remember these good times more often. This is a great way increase intimacy and remind yourselves of how much fun you’ve had.
Wear your best clothes for drinks.
Throw on your favorite outfit and get ready to spend some as much time together as possible. This Friday night, put on your makeup and dress up in something you love. You don’t see each other that often because of work schedules, so make the most of it. Craft cocktails, sexy music, and lit candles will help set the mood for a really romantic evening.
“I’ll make you breakfast in bed!”
Grab your partner by the hand, bring them back to bed, and then cook them up something delightful for breakfast. You’ll both appreciate getting time together. Plus, after you feed them a delicious breakfast in bed, they’ll be all set to be alongside you all day long.
Nothing beats a dance party!
Now you can dance together without the fear of embarrassing yourself in front of other people. If you haven’t been dancing for a while, why not set up a club at home? To recreate the nightclub atmosphere and feel, turn out the lights, put the speaker up high, add some disco balls and party-lights if you have them, and open some bottles to get that real club feel.
Learn about your strengths and get a personality assessment.
If you’re still getting to know each other, go deeper by setting up a personality test-themed date! Take all the quizzes you can find separately and discuss your results. This can be an exercise in understanding yourself better as well as finding out more about your potential match. Who knows–you might strengthen your bond or uncover some glaring incompatibilities!
Travel the world
If your relationship is anything like most relationships, you’ve been daydreaming about the perfect trip abroad for the two of you. Now it’s time to plan that vacation! Placing all the basic details on paper will get you excited and help you with the process.
Why not plant a garden?
Research shows that gardening, especially on sunny days, is a great way to help relieve depression and anxiety. You can buy cheap plants online and have them delivered to your door so you don’t have to go out. The next time it’s sunny outside – take some time to plant some flowers or vegetables in your garden. It can be a date that keeps on giving!
Pretend you’re different people
Who says date night has to be the same every time? One of the ways you can keep it fresh is by trying something new. The next time you plan a date, ask your partner to take on the role and call you “Suzy” for the whole night. Who knows what other surprises might happen if you let things get a little wild between you two…
Go to the museum
Museums are an amazing way to connect with art, culture, history, or the sciences. If you and your partner want a dose of culture together, I guarantee it will happen when you visit museums. Afterward, if you want to plan a longer date at a café or restaurant, don’t be afraid to book it! You can share your favorite experiences and hopefully get some new ones too.
Get in the car and drive until something new is just down the street
For the more adventurous, road trips can be a great way to spice things up. Plan a day trip or take some days off to explore your desired destination. Once you’ve mapped out a route and packed your bags, make sure to pack plenty of snacks and make a playlist. You’re going on an adventure!
Shop the farmer’s market
Going to the farmer’s market on a first date is a great way to have fun and get some fresh, in-season produce. You can feel the good vibes from everyone there and you’ll be full of inspiration for your next colorful meal. So why not skip the supermarket and head over to your local farmer’s market?
Hey, get in the water!
There’s nothing better than exploring a new sport with your partner. If you’re in a warmer climate or not afraid to strap on a wetsuit, here’s the date for you! The day includes kayaking, windsurfing, stand-up paddling, and surfing. If you’ve never done a water sport before, even better. You’ll learn something new alongside your partner and develop skills that can help strengthen your personal relationship.*
Build up a stockpile of date ideas
Whether you’re stuck in the house or on a date, this is a fun way to get creative and have some ideas for future dates. Brainstorming a list of future dates while you’re on your date and cuddling at home can lead to some great conversation and helps eliminate the date anxiety of “What should we do this evening?”
