What 3 Early Dating Mistakes Do Men Make While Pursuing A Russian Woman?
If you have struggled to get out of the talking stage with Russian Women in the past then chances are you have probably done one of these common dating mistakes without even realizing it.
Dating Behavior That Turns Everyone Off:
Coming on too strong is unattractive. This is common knowledge, and while you think most people understand or know this is not attractive, we’ll still see it happening all the time.
Too many people are not aware of what they’re doing and end up throwing away their chance with a woman. You may ask what this looks like so here are three common ways you are being too persistent.
You make her your number one priority
Adjusting your schedule every time, just for her comfort
Don’t make her the center of your world if you barely know each other. It is okay to do that when you’re in a relationship but if you barely know her then just treat her as if you were talking to a close friend. Crack some jokes here and there and don’t worry if she likes you or not because the woman you should marry is the one that likes you for who you are.
It’s inappropriate to constantly text a new contact the day after meeting them. Don’t get me wrong, send them one message saying “Hey, I’m glad you had dinner with me. I had a great time and hope we can do it again soon.” That is very straightforward and most girls appreciate it. But, if she doesn’t respond, that doesn’t mean blow up her phone ASAP. It is too soon, and they really don’t owe you a response.
When you only think about her and want to spend all your time with her, it makes her wonder why. Rather than giving her constant attention, she’ll be more attracted to you if you have your own life going on that doesn’t revolve around her too.
Living life by your own standards will not only help you attract women, but it will stop you from coming on too strong.
Why giving her space is important
When you’re in love with someone, you may want to spend every moment of your day with them.
People often protect their partners because they’re afraid of losing them, but doing this makes them lose them in the long run. They end up smothering their partner and they feel that they can’t be themselves. So, they might just walk away.
It could be as simple as inviting yourself to her place… or not taking your leave after you’ve spent the night…or tagging along uninvited to one of her social events.
You should let her invite you into her personal life and not ask to go. Sometimes a woman will consent to something despite it being against what she wants because she’s worried about causing an argument.
You should be aware that she isn’t with you all the time. Give her some space for her to live her own life.
Why it is a terrible idea to stalk her social media
Many people are guilty of stalking someone through social media. Those who are too shy to approach a person face to face often go through their social media profiles and follow them or view their photos to see where they post about going out or even filtering by location.
You may find yourself commenting on her social media posts or maybe liking all of her Instagram photos.
Unless she has gone first, and done the same with your social media, your attempts may overwhelm her. If she doesn’t know you well yet, she may think you are obsessed and have some kind of strange obsession with her because you have been following her online.
Mistakes Most Men Make
False compliments are a common mistake by shy guys
Spending too much money on a woman is another problem
You always picks her up and drop her off. Even if she’s able to come and go back home on her own.
The most common mistake guys make is forgetting friends or family to focus on the girl they want to get with.
Learn how to disagree with a girl without coming off as disagreeable
Most guys make the mistake of giving her too much attention
Making the mistake of thinking that attraction means love
A good sign she isn’t the one is if the love is all one sided
It must be reciprocated from the other side as well.
You cannot clap with one hand. Both hands have to make an effort
Treating your girl like a princess will do her more harm than good.
If you make these mistakes, she’ll eventually take you for granted.
Don’t just find someone who will put up with your crap. You deserve someone who knows life isn’t easy, and that they’re worth more than what you give them.
It pays to find the right person for you.
If someone leaves you, maintain a grateful perspective. If you’re wondering what to say, go for something like: “I’m grateful for whatever time I spent with her and I’ve learned so much from her. I’ll live with the happy memories.” And not “I regret spending so much time and money on her.”
Caring is different than love. Caring means to be happy when the other person is back to normal, ask them “how they are” and try cheering them up when they’re down.
If you care for someone, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you love him or her. But if you love someone, it means that you care for them too.
If someone cares about you, they’ll be overtly nurturing and make sure your needs are being met
Your girlfriend loves you and is as important to you as you are to her.
Find someone who puts in as much effort as you do.
